Seduce Yourself
AdorN-Eroticize-Feel
"The best lover you will ever have is yourself. Master that relationship, and every other will be an extension of your own deep love, care, and devotion."
-anonymous brilliance-
Self-Tying—an act of love, of beautification, of devotion to self. Entraced in the sensation of the rope, its sweet caresses, biting grabs, and its silky, snaking movements wrapping the curves of your luscious body. The embrace, the squeeze, the constriction. Feeling the ensnaring grip of the rope tighten as you breathe. Its fingers like hands of a lover with fists of your delicious flesh.
Enhance your erotic experience, bring depth and complexity to the sensations on your skin, your belly, your legs, your toes, your breasts, your pussy. This is YOUR body. YOUR pleasure. YOUR freedom. Explore your edges, take yourself to new dimensions, find your seductress, find your innocence. Discover YOURSELF.
just for fun
The beauty and magic of playing in the erotic is that it is for YOUR pleasure. I created this video one late sleepless night, purely for my own pleasure. I turned up some sultry sexy music, added red light for ambiance, danced, moved, tugged on my lingerie, felt my body, pulled on the ropes to create restriction, completely undressed myself through the ropes… It was devilishly delightful. I am not trained as an “erotic dancer.” I have actually found that discovering my seductress is quite vulnerable. At times, I feel awkward, clunky, and strange. Yet, when I am doing it for my pleasure and when I slowwww down, I feel more connected, beautiful, sexy. I feel my hair grazing my back and shoulders, the delicate touch of my fingertips along my skin, the arousing rub of the crotch rope. I feel turned on. And THAT is the point.
your turn
You will need:
—2 ropes (possibly more) of about 8 meters in length (26ft) or longer. You can use jute, hemp, cotton, silk, nylon…whatever ropes you want. As long as you like the texture of the ropes on your body.
—A sexy outfit: lingerie, body suit, booty shorts, costume, naked…whatever you want.
Follow along the video & improvise where you need to.
Sultry Self-Tie
Seduce Yourself
Enjoy exploring this sensuous tie. Wear it around the house, take sexy pictures or videos, enter a self-pleasure ritual, wear it out as a decorative art piece and turn a few heads, wear it under your clothes and go out in public ;) Whatever you do, just ennnjjooooyyyy it!
Feel free to take pictures & share with me.
I’d love to see you in this sultry tie!
Kati
with love
Want to go deeper
Art of Connection: an online Shibari Course
This course is designed to awaken your senses, heighten connection, and bring a whole new level of playfulness into your relationships. Whether you're new to rope or looking to refine your skills, this experience will guide you in creating electrifying moments of surrender, power, and intimacy.